What to Say in Your First Message: Breaking the Ice
- Jagarnath Oraon
- Apr 5
- 1 min read
Updated: Apr 15

Start Simple, Be Genuine
No pickup lines needed. A warm hello works wonders. Try:“Hi [Name], I came across your profile and really liked your thoughts on [shared interest].”
📌 Tip: Referencing something from their profile shows effort — and earns bonus points!
Keep It Respectful & Real
Remember, this isn’t just texting — it’s about building something meaningful. Be polite, no over-sharing, and avoid generic compliments.
Good First Impression = Good First Conversation
Final Thought
Every great match begins with a great hello. So breathe easy, be yourself — and press send. 💌